Escaping Shame
There are 2 parts to any healing journey. The healing that only God can do and the healing steps that only you can take. During my healing journey with Surrendering the Secret, the Lord addressed the shame in my heart after abortion with a vision...
How Many Hearts Can We Heal in 2023?
It is our dream, here at Surrendering the Secret (STS), to set stories free! Stories that will save generations from the heartbreak of abortion. Actually—stories that will save GENERATIONS FROM BEING ABORTED! Stories that will destroy the lie that...
The Impact of Abortion Healing in the Pro-Life Movement
I recently shared a graphic on my Instagram page that read, “These women that are seeking abortion do not need activism, they need compassion.” Wow, did THAT ruffle some feathers! The caption of the post spoke about the brokenness that these women...
I’m “OK” so why do I need abortion healing?
One of the more common statements we hear from STS Bible Study participants is, "I never knew I needed this!" My passion is for women to walk in freedom after abortion, but the first and sometimes most difficult step is to accept the fact that...
What to say (and not to say) to someone who has had an abortion
We are so pleased to be able to share this month's blog post with you from our guest writer, and incredible STS Certified Leader, Kathy Hill. Thousands bound by secrets, heartbreak, and fear are sitting in our churches, living as our neighbors, or...
Ministering to the Abortion Wounded – 3 Keys to Leading Well
While the impact of the overturning of Roe V Wade continues to stir up the waters of heartache in the hearts of so many, we anticipate that the need for a ministry like this one will continue to grow exponentially. We need healed and set free women...
Abortion & The Church – The Lost Voices
Many sitting in our churches have had one or more abortions. How can the church help these people heal? I've come to believe that the enemy's victory in the area of abortion, is not just the 63+ million lives lost, but rather the lost voice of the...
Do I have to share my secret or is God’s forgiveness enough?
As I read an email from a woman who serves on staff at her church in youth ministry, tears ran down my cheeks. You would think that after all these years my heart would not break every time I hear a story like hers. Praise You, most high God that...
Abortion, Mother’s Day, and the Leaked SCOTUS Opinion
This particular Mother's Day may prove to be even more of a challenge than usual for those that have experienced abortion. Not only is this day a public reminder as empty arms, and empty chairs around the family table speak volumes of what abortion...
Not all wounds are visible…
Hi friends...Jessie here. Please forgive me for my absence. I was so excited to get the blog going again and felt like I had so much to share, but I have been struggling through some health issues. The physical symptoms soon gave way to mind, soul,...